Last week I encouraged you to look in the rearview mirror before planning goals for your new year. Did you have a chance to do that? If not, take another look at that message, because looking at LAST year is a critical first step to achieving your goals for NEXT year.
And based on many conversations I’ve had with many clients, here’s the problem my clients encounter: they run out of time.
They know they “should” be taking care of themselves… that when they feel healthy they feel better about themselves… that exercise and proper nutrition give them energy to do all the things they want to do…
But finding time to get to their workout every day is challenging.
So let me help you “find time” in your schedule, so you don’t put off taking care of yourself.
If you’re thinking about something, especially something you need to do, write it down. Once it’s out of your head, you’re able to focus on the tasks...
Are you feeling inundated with offers to “create your best year yet”, or “goal-setting for 2018!” or any other way of saying the same thing?
I know my email inbox is full of subject lines like that.
And I’m not knocking forward thinking or planning. Not by any means. There are a lot of different ways of doing it - the “90 day year” or the “getting things done” plans. They are definitely valuable, and you should pick a system and work it.
But the real gold is in the rearview mirror.
Before planning for NEXT year, start by looking at LAST year, so you can identify the lessons that will help you move forward.
First, did you have written goals for this past year? If so, pull them out and write them down on a new sheet.
If you didn’t have any written goals this past year, think back 6 to 12 months, and put yourself into that time frame. What were you talking about doing? What new initiatives did you start? Work...
I was chopping up some vegetables for dinner when the little “ding!” on my phone distracted me. With my attention diverted, just momentarily, I accidentally slipped, and took a little slice off my finger.
“Ouch! Jeez! I always do that sort of thing!” I said out loud, to no one in particular.
I stopped in my tracks, right there in the middle of the kitchen. I couldn’t believe it. Why had I just said that? I know better. I don’t always do that sort of thing. But I had put myself down anyway.
Now if someone had been standing there watching me slice vegetables, only to see me slice my finger instead, and had said, “Jeez! You always do that sort of thing!” I would have gotten angry at them.
I would have said, “No, I don’t! It was just an accident.”
So why did I speak so unkindly to myself?
Unfortunately we all tend toward negative thoughts over positive thoughts. In fact, your “mental chatter”...
I remember surviving December last year.
The kids’ teachers had just about given up trying to teach anything constructive before vacation.
The dog got into a whole batch of cookie dough (presumably left high enough on the counter to be out of reach) and needed to be rushed to the vet.
The relatives who were supposed to be coming for Christmas dinner were starting to argue about who would bring what to eat.
Somehow I managed to keep my cool.
And people are often surprised to know that during a stressful time like this – even I have to remind myself to stay disciplined with my workout routine.
I know myself well enough to know that if I don’t get to work out, I get grumpy. Really grumpy. Considering all the other stuff going on, I figured I’d better make sure I fit it in.
So here are some of my strategies for “fitting fitness in”, even during the busiest times of the year.
Evaluate your fitness goals. What is absolutely necessary...
It's such a challenge. At the very time of year when you want to look and feel your best, you are confronted with more food choices than the rest of the year combined.
Depending on where you are in the world, your calorie intake might be a little different, but this is still a pretty good reference point. According to the Calorie Control Council, a typical holiday dinner can include 3,000 calories. If you include appetizers and drinks, it’s very likely around 4,500 calories in one day.
So how do you enjoy the celebrations during the holidays, without feeling like you are depriving yourself of some of your favorite comfort foods?
And how do you deal with the social pressure of not disappointing Aunt Mabel or your mother-in-law, when they keep trying to get you to eat food you normally avoid?
The easiest thing to do is to manage your food intake all the rest of the month, AND make sure you do the other things you know will give you energy and help you feel good.
What if I told you that “positive thinking” isn’t all it’s cracked up to be?
Well it turns out that once you think positively, your brain believes the goal is already achieved, and it saps your energy to accomplish that goal.
NYU and University of Hamburg professor, Gabriele Oettingen, is the author of Rethinking Positive Thinking. After 20 years of research, she has developed a totally different framework that actually helps people achieve their goals.
This framework is being taught in schools, where it improves effort, homework completion, attendance, and GPA. Outside of school, this framework reduces stress, increases engagement, improves time management, and promotes physical fitness.
Ah-ha! Now we’re talking. :-)
The framework is called WOOP, which stands for Wish - Outcome - Obstacle - Plan.
Start by stating something you’d like. It should be specific, something you can do within a time frame, and challenging but...
Do you remember that last week we revisited high school chem class and learned about acidic and alkaline blood? If you don’t remember what that’s about, you can go back and re-read that article here.
To recap: your blood MUST have a slightly alkaline pH in order to be balanced, and if it’s off, other body systems will sacrifice themselves - by donating essential nutrients - in order to get back to the balanced level of around 7.4.
If your blood pH is too acidic, it means you are suffering from acidosis, which has many side effects.
For example, many people tell me they have trouble sleeping.
Waking up frequently to go to the bathroom, being unable to fall back to sleep at 3 am because of a “racing mind”, yet still feeling tired by the time you drag yourself out of bed at 6:30 or 7 am…
These are signs your body is overly acidic, and is working hard to eliminate the acid (peeing, perspiring, poo-ing, breathing, and even retaining fat...
Today I’d like to talk about how the food you eat can not only impact how you feel today, but potentially have an impact on your life years from now.
If you are easily tired out or short of breath, or if you have trouble sleeping or concentrating, your food choices could be the culprit.
And if you know an older friend or relative who struggles with brittle bones and teeth, a lifetime’s worth of food choices could be at the root of the problem.
What many people don’t know is… the foods you eat could be causing your body to break down your bones, and sabotage your other body systems!
What?? How could that be?
Very simply, if you suffer from a condition called acidosis, it means your body is essentially “borrowing from Peter to pay Paul”. In other words, stealing critical nutrients from your bones in order to balance out what is missing from the rest of your body, thanks to your diet.
The results of this nutrient-borrowing include low energy,...
It can feel overwhelming sometimes.
You’ve been living your life, maybe raising kids, running your own business or showing up at someone else’s business.
You find you have less and less time to do the important things in life. Like exercise daily, eat right, sleep enough, and hydrate all day.
Maybe you’re the type of person who already takes pretty good care of yourself, but have gotten away from it recently because of all the other demands of life.
Or maybe you’re the type of person who has “tried” to “get healthy”... But you struggle to be consistent and stay committed.
So you set big goals for yourself. “I’ll run 10 miles a week.” “I’ll only eat vegetables with a little protein and fruit.” “I’ll get to bed at 9:30 every night.” “I’ll drink 10 glasses of water every day.”
Sure, those are important to your health, but it’s challenging to make those sorts of...
The alarm clock comes on and at first I pretend I don’t notice.
I think that maybe, if I shut my eyes a little more tightly, it won’t really be true…
But then my mind begins to wake up, I start remembering the things I had planned for the day, and I manage to put both feet on the floor and shlep across the room and down the hall, into the bathroom.
Some days start like that. It doesn’t matter if the alarm comes on at 5 am or 8 am (8 am?? Let’s face it; that never happens!), it’s still a challenge to drag myself out of bed. Note to self: Instead of a nice comfy bed, get one with sandpaper on top of nails. It will be easier to get up.
I hit the snooze button a couple of times.
I finally drag myself out of bed and slink into the bathroom in the dark, where I make myself as presentable as a zombie can be. I try not to bang around too much; the last thing I want to do is wake anyone else in the house or I’ll never get out the...
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